Forged By Fire: Writing Your Own Story, Controlling the Narrative
What happens when passion and purpose meet politics? Well, for some reason it’s never a good outcome. When you hear the word politics — you may think of the red and blue fiasco that’s happening on Fox News, CNN, etc. However, we are going to speak on the politics of the coaching world and how the lack of interference ran off one of the fastest rising coaches in the profession.
“I can recall the entire situation from start to finish… it’s something that I will never forget in the lifetime of my career and after.” Boynton recalled in our interview.
Politics ended the high school coaching career of Malik Boynton and the reason had nothing to do with wins and losses on the field but, more about the imaginary “handcuffs” the people close to him tried to create to restrain him. When asked “why?'“, Boynton replied "When the people in power have an agenda, they’ll stop at no ends to get it done.”
Boynton felt that his time at Sam had neared an end and throughout our interview you may grab a better understanding of why Boynton denies that he will ever return to the high school coaching profession.
“This profession is the most rewarding professions on earth when it comes to dealing with the kids. It’s the grownups who will make it tough and unpleasant.” said Boynton.
We asked Boynton to walk us through his time and experience at Arlington Sam Houston High School and what we heard next was one of the most disappointing stories I’ve heard since joining the football industry.
Boynton was hired to Arlington Sam Houston High School in 2022, at the age of 25 years old. He was very grateful for the opportunity and eager to find where he fit into the program. That summer Boynton made it a point to attend EVERY summer workout session to show the kids a sense of pride and commitment. “When I got to Sam Houston it did not take long to see the issue with the program. We only had twelve kids consistently come to summer workouts. I knew if we wanted to have any chance at competing that we would have to change that.” Boynton said.
Through the summer Boynton would attend morning and afternoon sessions every day from 8am-5pm. He was very hopeful that his effort would be seen and matched by the players and other coaches. As players became more committed, coaches became more distant.
“It was easy to tell who was really about the grind and who was just there to collect a check. Coach Alexander, Coach Martin, Coach Miller, and Coach Tegeler were with me every step of the grind. I really appreciated them for that.” said Boynton.
After sitting back and watching the Texans practice bad habits for a year that he viewed as an “observation” year — Boynton had a plan for all the problems in the program.
“My first year at Sam, we had another young coach that was more of the vocalist. His name was Coach Reggie Stubblefield. We were both young and I’d watch how the older coaches tried to pit us against one another. I’ve never been one to prioritize anything other than the well-being of the kids. Reggie and I got along great.”
That was until Coach Stubblefield decided to make a return to playing football — signing with the Montreal Alouettes of the CFL, where he’d later win a Grey Cup.
When Stubblefield left it allowed space for Boynton to take the bull by the horns and press the gas on his plan. “My plan was called “Operation CARE” centered around commitment, accountability, respect, and effort.” I pitched the idea to Coach James and the staff & they didn’t really give it any thought, so we moved onto offseason programming.”
Boynton, at the time was the Defensive Backs Coach, and felt his voice was not being heard when it came to the overall well-being of the program.
“I hated the fact that in the summer it was me and maybe three other coaches here consistently but, when it was time to make decisions the people with a title made them blindly. It’s one thing if you’re with your guys and learning about them. But, that wasn’t the case. Some of the coaches on that staff would skip offseason workouts and leave practice early, but had the most to say in meetings.”
After countless hours and three summers without a day off, Boynton finally was promoted to the Defensive Coordinator role.
“Even then it did not feel right. The Coordinator before me was fired after doing everything the Head Coach asked him to do. He was blamed for our lack of team success, even though the Head Coach would be responsible for our defensive gameplan. That never sat right with me.” said Boynton.
When Boynton got the job, he promised that there would not be a situation that the defense was not prepared for.
“My job was to get them ready to play at a high level. We did walkthroughs, run throughs, interactive meetings, etc. all to give the players the best chance at success. We were told to leave the field after practice while doing conditioning because the head coach didn’t want us to “outwork the offense.”
With a precedent set, Boynton finally gained enough awareness to approach the head coach about his lackadaisical approach to the upcoming season.
“I remember going to the head coach with a list of problems in the program and hoping he’d give me some power to help change them. When he gave me the greenlight, it was over with! I knew we were going to get some momentum rolling, but I don’t think he truly believed in the mission.”
The Change
After we started to see the numbers grow, all the other coaches wanted to be part of it. The Head Coach hired his best friend and one of his high school teammates to be the offensive coordinator. That move played a HUGE impact in the following events.
“When we got news that we were getting a new offensive coordinator — we became extremely excited and optimistic based on the body of work that was displayed to us. When he got over to Sam Houston nothing was ever the same.” Boynton said.
The hiring led to an unhealthy relationship amongst the staff.
When the new coach was hired, that’s when the political game came about.
“I had no idea why I was being targeted. I had done nothing to that point that the head coach didn’t allow or encourage. When the vibe and energy started getting weird, I decided that I was going to ignore it and focus on doing my job at a high level.”
The Last Straw
“I’ll never forget the meeting that made the decision for me easy. I walked into a meeting room with the Head Coach and his best friend — I was told, “You’re either going to be a school coach or a street coach.” A statement that Boynton has taken and ran with. Boynton was called into a meeting with the Head Coach and his best friend/offensive coordinator.
“They brought me in the office thinking I’d be intimidated but it was actually the opposite effect. The head coach tried to tell me I was out of line for pouring into the kids and before you knew it they had exposed themselves as the secret enemies that were setting me up for my demise.”
For months, the head coach and his counterpart were hinting to Boynton that the school district officials were investigating him and that he was breaking UIL rules — when in fact, that was proven to be false.
Once Boynton found out about the plot he became more and more disconnected from the program.
“When I found out, I confronted all of the coaches that played a role in it. They all acted clueless but that was fine. That just let me know that there was a shift in power and ultimately, they were scared of the truth being unveiled. The harder I pushed, the more apparent the truth was. The head coach is a naturally soft/passive guy so I knew he was behind the whole conspiracy.” Boynton said.
The Aftermath
“Leaving those guys at Sam Houston was one of the hardest things I’ve had to do in my life. I’d been with most of those guys since they were in the 8th grade. We had just turned a corner in the program and finally had a foundation built.”
Boynton was demoted from his defensive coordinator position after leading the defense to the most defensive touchdowns in District 8-6A.
“When things became more about them than the kids, I knew it was time to leave. I also knew that those guys hadn’t put in the work to keep the foundation strong. The Head Coach turned that place into a graveyard — he left it much worse than he found it and that’s something he will have to live with for the rest of his life.” Boynton said.
Sam Houston went on to go 1-9 their following season without Boynton. They lost over half of the team and the then Head Coach reached out to Boynton in hopes of helping him build up Draft Prep Academy upon his retirement. Boynton declined and continues to build DPA’s reputation, impact, and program as a whole.
Sam Houston High School has hired a new Head Football Coach — Bobby Watkins of West Mesquite High School.
“Watkins was a GREAT hire for Sam Houston High School. I don’t know him that well, but in his short time over there he’s built the program attendance back up and even has the kids showing up at 6am all week. I love what I’ve seen so far from he and his new staff.” said Boynton
Watkins and Boynton have a few things in common but the most glaring similarity is that they are both relentless, young black leaders with a heart of gold when it comes to the kids.
Watch the video attached for a deeper view on the situation and how it unfolded — straight from the sources mouth.
